When is the best time to show up for a grieving person?

Exactly when you think of it.

Having been a widow for over a year and a half now, I know what most often stops people from doing something kind after a tragedy.

People worry way too much about timing.

• Is it too soon to stop over?
• Too late to send a card?
• Do they have too much food?
• Should I wait another day?

All of these thoughts are garbage.

Worrying about timing delays your act of kindness, or worse - stops it altogether.

The right time to reach out to someone dealing with loss is exactly when it crosses your mind.

• Mail a card
• Drop off food
• Reach out by phone, text, or email
• Stop over with coffee

Do it as soon as possible once you think of it. You'll be glad you did.